Here’s My Story

Ten years ago, the happiness, freedom and inner peace I have today were unthinkable.

That’s because for such a long time I had felt utterly miserable.

I constantly had anxious thoughts that I numbed out by binge drinking, or when that stopped working, going excessively to the gym and obsessing over my appearance.

My confidence was at an all time low and I would blush like a ripe tomato every time I spoke up for myself. I avoided using my voice at all costs and would constantly stress over what people thought about me.

I had no idea how my life had ended up like this. I was 27 years old, in a job I hated and in a relationship that had been all but over for many years.

I was completely and utterly suffocated by my own life.

Now, I can quieten my mind at the drop of a hat.

I have a healthy and happy relationship with my body and no longer need to use alcohol or excessive exercise to escape.

I have an inner confidence that is unshakeable and allows me to enjoy using my voice to help others.

I run the business that I’d always dreamt off feeling calm and centred with the freedom to enjoy time with my children and myself.

I’ve manifested an incredible romantic relationship which is healthy, loving and supportive.

How it all began

My father, who was my absolute hero but is sadly no longer with me, had a health scare. I was sat on a cold bus coming home from the job that I hated, to a man who didn’t value me.  I saw my reflection in the bus window and I almost didn’t recognise myself. And it hit me like a tonne of bricks.

Life is so short and so precious and as cliché as it sounds, tomorrow isn’t promised. I realised I couldn’t do another day in my toxic relationship, let alone another year. I couldn’t waste another minute doing a mediocre job, and I couldn’t keep putting off trying to pass my driving test again just because I failed when I was seventeen because I’d been so anxious.

I knew deep down that I was worth so much more than that. I knew that I deserved so much more and that I couldn’t keep making excuses and living with a victim mentality. I had to start making some moves towards the life that I wanted and was worthy of.

So I started. Without any real clue what I was doing. I just kept putting one foot in front of the other. I let that relationship go. Next was the job promotion. Then it was booking and passing my driving test.

It was hard because I was so out of my comfort zone and I had to do everything by myself. I didn’t have the tools to properly support myself through so much change.

But I felt myself growing in confidence and strength. As I weeded out the things in my life that no longer served me, it became easier to call in the things that did, like the amazing relationship that I’m in now.

But even then, I realised there was still a part of me that felt unsettled and restless. As proud as I was of getting myself that promotion, I felt like I still wasn’t living out my true purpose. I realised I wanted to help women like me get the things they really wanted and deserved in their lives.

I wanted to make a difference.

I wanted to be in service to the feminine.

I wanted to lead myself and other women to live their most empowered and happy lives.

To bring the change I wanted to see to life, I embarked on a year-long world-class coaching certification with Layla Martin, where I learnt the true art of transformation and became a certified VITA coach specialising in Women’s Empowerment. 

I’m incredibly proud of my accreditation. I’ve got world-class coaching skills and experience, and I’m brimming with tools and practices that are incredibly powerful in bringing about life-changing transformation, but my life experience is also incredibly valuable in helping women change their lives.

I used my coaching certification combined with my life experience to create a programme that means no woman has to feel alone in their journey to happiness and empowerment. The incredible women I have had the honour of coaching have all been amazed at how easily they have been able to turn their lives around and let go of insecurities and trauma that have been holding them back for so long.

Thank you so much for reading, I’m really happy we’re connected, and I’m excited to get to know you. 

With all my love,

Lulu x

A few of my faves…

When I’m not helping people you’ll find me down at my local beach with my kids, reading or watching a film.

I love performing arts. As a child, I was always dancing, singing and acting. Taking a trip to the theatre is still such a magical experience for me.

I once took part in Miss Galaxy Universe –  a military fitness take on Miss World. Enough said! I still love exercise and keeping fit, especially Muay Thai.

I have an AAT qualification in accountancy and I love all things a little bit woo – yoga, crystals and the moon!

And then there’s travel – Portugal, Italy and Turkey are my favourite places. I can’t wait to go back.